Marriage Laws in Massachusetts (2026): Rules Every Couple Should Know
Most people think getting married is simple. Just show up, say “I do,” and you’re done. But in Massachusetts, there are real legal steps you have to follow. Skip one, and your marriage might not even be valid.
Don’t worry. We’ll break it down step by step.
What Is Marriage Law in Massachusetts?

Marriage law covers the legal rules around who can get married and how. It sets the age requirements, the paperwork you need, who can perform the ceremony, and what marriages the state will not recognize.
Massachusetts marriage law lives in Chapter 207 of the Massachusetts General Laws. It’s been updated several times over the years. The most recent big change happened in 2022. We’ll get to that in a minute.
Who Can Get Married in Massachusetts?
The Age Rule (This One Changed in 2022)
Here’s where it gets interesting.
In July 2022, Governor Charlie Baker signed a law raising the legal age for marriage to 18 with no exceptions. That’s a big deal. Before that law, minors could marry in some cases with parental and court approval.
Until recently, a person under 18 could be married if they obtained parental consent and a judge approved it. That system is gone now.
As of October 26, 2022, marriages are prohibited for individuals under the age of 18. No exceptions. No parental workarounds. You must be 18 or older. Period.
This part is important if you’ve been reading old websites. A lot of them still say minors can marry with parental consent. That is no longer true in Massachusetts.
You Can’t Already Be Married
Okay, pause. Read this carefully.
A marriage contracted while either party has a former spouse living shall be void. That means if you’re still legally married to someone else, your new marriage is automatically invalid.
This is called bigamy. It’s illegal in Massachusetts. Massachusetts General Laws Chapter 272, Section 15 covers polygamy as a criminal offense.
Think of it like building a house on a cracked foundation. It doesn’t matter how nice the house looks. The whole thing falls apart.
You Don’t Have to Live in Massachusetts
Good news if you’re planning a destination wedding. You don’t have to be a state resident to get married in Massachusetts. Couples from anywhere can come here to tie the knot.
How to Get a Marriage License

This is the part most couples spend the most time on. Honestly, it’s more steps than people expect.
Step 1: File a Notice of Intention to Marry
You and your future partner both have to appear at the city or town’s Clerk’s Office. You’ll both need a valid form of identification, your Social Security numbers, and the application fee. You must come in person. These forms can’t be processed by mail.
So simple! But you both have to show up together. You can’t send one person ahead.
You must provide your legal names and what last name you will use after marriage, and the names of your parents, including maiden names. If you were previously married, you’ll need to provide how many times and the date your divorce or annulment was finalized.
Step 2: Wait Three Days
There is a required 3-day waiting period before you can pick up your marriage license. You apply on Monday? You can pick up your license on Thursday.
Wondering if you can skip the wait? You can, but it’ll cost you. If you want to waive the 3-day waiting period, a court needs to give you a Marriage Without Delay Waiver. They will charge you a $195 fee.
Step 3: Use the License Within 60 Days
The license is valid for 60 days once you have it. If you’re not married within 60 days of the date the license was granted, you’ll need to apply for it again.
Pretty straightforward. Just don’t let it expire.
You can apply for your license at any city or town clerk’s office in Massachusetts. It doesn’t have to be from the town where you live or where your ceremony will be. It is valid anywhere in the state.
Who Can Perform the Ceremony?
Not just anyone can legally marry you. Massachusetts has specific rules about this.
There are 4 primary groups of people who can officiate at weddings in Massachusetts.
In-State Clergy: If you’d like to be married by a member of the clergy who lives in Massachusetts, they are most likely already authorized to perform the ceremony. However, if they haven’t performed a marriage in the state before, they’ll need to file 3 forms with the Commissions Section of the Public Records Division.
In-State Justice of the Peace: Justices of the Peace are appointed by the Governor with the advice and consent of the Executive Council, and some are authorized to perform marriages.
Out-of-State Clergy or Justice of the Peace: Clergy members or Justices of the Peace who are authorized in other states have to file the non-resident, out-of-state clergy petition to get a certificate to officiate your ceremony. They shouldn’t file the application more than 6 weeks before your wedding day.
A Friend or Family Member: Yep, this is real. If you want a friend or family member to officiate your wedding, they can apply for a 1-day designation.
Wait, it gets better. That 1-day designation is a popular option. It lets someone close to you make the ceremony feel personal.
After the Ceremony

Hold on, this part is important.
Your officiant has a legal responsibility after your wedding. After you’re married, your officiant must sign and return the license to the city or town clerk who issued it no later than 10 days following the marriage ceremony.
If the license isn’t returned, the marriage still happened. But getting your official marriage certificate becomes much harder. Make sure your officiant knows this step.
After the wedding, if you want a copy of your marriage certificate, it’s $12 in person and $14 by mail.
Marriages Massachusetts Will NOT Recognize
Now, here’s where things get serious.
Some marriages are simply not valid in Massachusetts, no matter where or how they happened.
Close Relatives Cannot Marry
Some examples of marriages Massachusetts considers void include marriages between close relatives, such as siblings, parents, and children. These marriages are treated as if they never happened. There’s no divorce process because there’s no valid marriage to end.
Marriages to People Already Married
Bigamous marriages, where one party is already married to another person, are prohibited by law. If you marry someone who is secretly still married, your marriage is void. You are not their legal spouse.
Marriages from Other States
A friend asked me about this recently. She assumed that if something was legal in another state, Massachusetts had to accept it. Turns out, that’s only partly true.
Massachusetts courts will ordinarily extend recognition to out-of-state marriages, even if such marriages would be prohibited here, unless the marriage violates Massachusetts public policy, including polygamy, relationships between close relatives, and similar prohibitions.
So if you legally got married in another state, Massachusetts will likely honor it. But not always. Marriages that break Massachusetts public policy won’t be recognized no matter where they took place.
Common Law Marriage: The Big Myth
You’ve probably heard this one. “If you live together long enough, you’re basically married.” A lot of people believe this.
It is not true in Massachusetts.
Common-law marriage is not recognized in Massachusetts. Cohabitation does not create the relationship of husband and wife in the absence of a formal solemnization of marriage.
Living with someone for 7 years, 10 years, or 20 years does not make you legally married here. You’re not alone. This confuses a lot of people.
A common myth often associated with common law marriage is that if a couple is residing together for seven years, they are now common law married. This is not true for Massachusetts. The state requires a formal marriage process, including a marriage license and ceremony.
Here’s the twist though. Massachusetts does recognize out-of-state common-law marriages under the Full Faith and Credit Clause, as long as they don’t violate Massachusetts public policy. So if you formed a valid common-law marriage in a state that allows it, Massachusetts will honor it.
Same-Sex Marriage in Massachusetts
Massachusetts made history on this one.
Same-sex marriages were legalized in Massachusetts in 2003, making it the first state to recognize such unions in the United States. The rights and protections afforded to same-sex spouses are the same as those enjoyed by opposite-sex spouses, including the right to divorce, share finances, and inherit assets.
Personally, I think this is one of the most important parts of Massachusetts marriage law. Every couple has equal standing here.
What Marriages Are Completely Void?
Not every invalid marriage requires a court proceeding to undo. Some are automatically void from the start.
A marriage solemnized within the commonwealth that is prohibited by reason of relationships between close relatives, or of either party having a former spouse living, shall be void without a judgment of divorce or other legal process.
That means it’s as if the marriage never happened. No divorce is required. But things can get legally complicated, especially if property or children are involved. When in doubt, talk to a lawyer.
Penalties for Breaking Marriage Laws
So what happens if you break these laws?
Getting married when you’re already legally married is bigamy. That’s a criminal offense. Massachusetts General Laws Chapter 207 includes provisions and penalties for violations of marriage laws.
Think of it like this: it’s not just a paperwork problem. It can result in criminal charges, not just an invalid marriage.
Making false statements on marriage forms or tampering with marriage documents also carries penalties. Whoever makes an illegal alteration or erasure on a certificate of intention of marriage shall be punished by a fine of not more than one hundred dollars.
Domestic Partnerships: An Alternative Option
Not ready or wanting to marry? Massachusetts offers another option.
Massachusetts recognizes domestic partnerships and allows any couple to register for a domestic partnership if they meet certain requirements. A domestic partnership offers some legal recognition for unmarried couples but does not give couples all of the rights that a married couple is entitled to.
To make a domestic partnership official in Massachusetts, you can register with your city or town clerk’s office. You and your partner must both be at least eighteen years old, you are not related by blood, unmarried, and mentally capable of entering into a contract.
It’s similar to marriage in some ways, but not the same thing. Think of it as a legal recognition without full marital rights.
How to Get Married in Massachusetts: Quick Summary
Here’s your checklist. Go through each step and you’ll be fine.
Step 1: Make sure both of you are at least 18 and legally single.
Step 2: Go together, in person, to any city or town clerk’s office in Massachusetts.
Step 3: Fill out the Notice of Intention to Marry. Bring ID, Social Security numbers, and any divorce or annulment papers if applicable.
Step 4: Pay the fee. It varies by town.
Step 5: Wait three days (or pay $195 to waive the wait).
Step 6: Pick up your marriage license. It’s valid for 60 days.
Step 7: Have your ceremony with a legally authorized officiant.
Step 8: Make sure your officiant returns the signed license to the clerk’s office within 10 days.
Step 9: Get your official marriage certificate for $12 in person or $14 by mail.
Trust me, this works. Follow these steps and you’re legally married in Massachusetts.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to be a Massachusetts resident to get married here? No. You don’t have to live in Massachusetts to get married here. Couples from any state or country can apply for a license.
How long does a marriage license last in Massachusetts? Your license is valid for 60 days. If you don’t get married within that window, you have to apply again.
Can a friend marry us in Massachusetts? Yes. A friend or family member can apply for a 1-Day Marriage Designation to legally officiate your ceremony.
Is common-law marriage legal in Massachusetts? No. Living together, no matter how long, does not create a legal marriage in Massachusetts. You must go through the formal marriage process.
What happens if one of us was previously married? You’ll need to show documentation proving how the previous marriage ended, such as a divorce decree, annulment papers, or a death certificate. You also cannot apply for a new marriage license until at least one day after your Massachusetts divorce is finalized (which takes at least 90 days after the divorce judgment).
Can we get married the same day we apply for the license? Not without a court waiver. There is a mandatory 3-day waiting period. To skip it, you must obtain a Marriage Without Delay Waiver from a probate or district court. The fee is $195.
Are same-sex marriages fully legal in Massachusetts? Yes. Same-sex marriages have been fully legal in Massachusetts since 2003. All rights and legal protections are the same for every married couple.
Final Thoughts
Now you know the basics of marriage law in Massachusetts in 2026. The rules are clear once you understand them.
You need to be 18. You need to be legally single. You need a license. You need an authorized officiant. And you need to follow the steps in order.
The biggest mistake people make? Assuming marriage is automatic or informal. In Massachusetts, it’s a legal process. But it’s not a hard one if you’re prepared.
Stay informed, stay organized, and when in doubt, contact your local city or town clerk. They’re there to help.
References
- Massachusetts General Law Chapter 207: Marriage — Massachusetts Legislature
- Getting Married in Massachusetts: Before the Wedding — Mass.gov
- Massachusetts Law About Marriage — Mass.gov
- How to Get Married in Boston — Boston.gov
- Massachusetts Becomes the 7th State to End Child Marriage — Tahirih Justice Center (2022)
- Understanding Marriage Validity Laws in Massachusetts — Sawin Law, P.C.
- Common Law Marriage in MA: Myths and Facts — Weber Law
- Massachusetts Marriage License Laws — FindLaw